David & Riva Rosenberg

I have several early Bobby & Carol memories including the announcement of their engagement, Bobby not being at the house for a Passover Seder and my freaking out to Aunt Bea about it, walks with Chip & Booby, and who could forget all the many skits (including,"David was the teacher-Riva was the student" at my rehearsal dinner.)

But what stands out for me is when i was about 11 or 12 (35 years ago!) my father took myself & my brother to visit in beautiful Hendersonville, N.C. We arrived on a friday just in time to see Bobby the lawyer in legal action at the courthouse. He was examining (or cross examining) a witness. "So, are you saying that you saw the defendant approachingthe screen door?" ". . . and after he was on the porch. . .. but he didn't enter the home. . . " I thought, "wow, this is what lawyers do--I can do that!"

Carol had made us dinner and we were getting a tour of the house. I just have this visceral memory of her being so warm & loving--the whole southern accent and manner reminded me of my own mother. I also remember how beautiful the house was and the mountains. Bobby was really hyping up going for a hike the next morning. I remember telling him that we hiked at camp (Tamarack) and that it would be no big deal. The next morning we went on a hike and all I remember is passing out in the back of his pick up truck and my father saying that they're too heavy to pick up! I was dead to the world and could hardly move.

When we got back to Michigan I told my friends that I went hiking with my cousin and that we went for 100 miles and that I collapsed (the word I heard my father and Bobby say). But most of all I remember the trip as a wonderful time with my grown up cousins who were so much older than me--but yet, so cool.

Love,

David
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I can't believe its your 60th birthday. I have to say that even though we don't see each other often enough, you have always been an inspirational couple to me. You are both kind, generous of spirit, warm, down to earth, and loving people. As they say, the proof is in the pudding. You have raised two of the sweetest and greatest young adults that we know. David and I aspire to give Matthew and Sofie the wonderful upbringing that you have shared with Robin and Andy. We can only hope that they turn out as well as your kids.

A funny memory of Carol...
Do you remember Emily's bat mitzvah? We are in the hotel lobby chatting, Sofie is 3 and Matthew is 5(I think). Sofie has this dolly which she totally adores and she has named her Carol. I think its so funny that she has named her Carol and that Carol's name is Carol so I say, "Sofie, do you know what her name is?" (pointing to Carol)- Sofie says "no". I say, "it's Carol, just like your dolly". At this moment, for some unknown reason, Sofie decides its a good idea to to pretend she's a Red Sox pitcher and throws that doll at Carol's face. Ouch! Carol is clearly in pain but is gracious about the whole incident- no surprise. I am of course totally mortified. Sofie starts to cry. I have to say that she has never thrown anything at anyone since then. Thanks for being so understanding, Carol!

Something I love about Bobby:
Bobby, I love your musical talent and how you enhance any family event by doing a song about it. I remember... our rehearsal dinner- David was the teacher, Riva was the student....A cute little ditty about the beginning of our love. Thanks for making that night so special!

I love you both and wish you at least another 60 years of health, love and happiness!!! Happy Birthday!

Riva